Communication is key in sorting confrontation

Dear Tina, My partner and I both go to Del Mar so we have finals coming up very soon. We were studying together the other evening and when he tried to help me with something I yelled at him because I was frustrated. My partner does not like confrontation so rather than deal with me he just took his stuff and left. I’m totally devastated because I didn’t mean to yell at him but he isn’t answering his phone or my text messages so I have not been able to apologize. What should I do to make things right? Thank…

Thank you, DMC, for giving me a start

There’s a lot to be said about my time as a Viking. From the long hours spent in the journalism lab to sloppy wet kisses that could be received from Fred the dog, Del Mar provided a community I grew to love. Everyone can relate to the feeling of being stuck, not knowing where you’re going or what your next course of action is. That’s how I entered Del Mar. Through the various classes and professors I was introduced to, I was given opportunities that I never knew existed for me. I am a public relations major who didn’t have…

Keep the holidays happy for everyone

Everyone has had the awkward feeling of seeing someone they know out in public and having about five seconds to determine if you’re going to say “Merry Christmas” or “Happy Holidays.” In most recent years there has become a huge consciousness of when it is appropriate to say “Merry Christmas” as to not offend anyone. The term has been coined as too religious, leading people to say that it is exclusive of other religions. One of the main places that we see this transition is in retail. It can be said that the premise of this argument is solely political…

She’s dressed to the nines, ’90’s style

Whether she’s going to class or gearing up for a late night with her friends, nursing student Amber Watkins always makes sure to put her best boot forward when going out. Pulling her style from early ’90s culture, Watkins takes the signature high-waisted look and turns it into an edgy look that only she can pull off. No matter where this stylish free thinker goes she always strives to make a bold statement.  Q: Where do you get your fashion inspiration? A: I honestly just go with the flow. When I shop I usually just see what I like and…

Fast food question leads to supersized argument

Dear Tina, My girlfriend likes McMuffins from McDonald’s and I like BOBs from Whataburger. We are always going to McDonald’s to eat breakfast and I never eat there because im not a fan. How do I get her to like Whataburger, so we can eat there more often? — BOBs   Dear BOBs, Thank you for your interesting question. Honestly? No one can just have their preference changed because someone doesn’t like it. What you can do though is talk it out with her and see if y’all can find someplace you both like and go there instead. For example,…